Wednesday, January 09, 2008

Somethings

there are somethings that are never meant to be..

one of them is the word, 'bestfriend'

this particular word is basically very easy to say and to have..well for most of the humanoids here.
but try losing that 'bestfreind'. how easy do you replace them? for some, its very easy but to some, its like losing the better half of you.

for me, i never had a best friend. only once.

for the whole 17 years of my life i didn't want to have a bestfriend because i was scared. yes i admit that all my other friends are just good/close friends but i never thought of them as a bestfriend.

imagine this, u have been with a friend for 5 years and your friend suddenly announces that he/she have another bestfriend whom he/she have known for only 2 weeks. how will that feel?

back to topic, i treat all my friends equally whether i have known them for a long time or short but still a friend is still a friend.

a friend is someone you can trust and someone who trusts you. a friend is someone who will be there for you when in need.

however, a bestfriend is someone that you want to put all your trust and willat. for a guy and girl bestfriend relationship, love couldbe invovled and that is very dangerous.

all i'm saying is that i have had a bestfriend once but that didn't go too well and guess what?

i have betrayed and been betrayed in that field and won't trust anything with bestfriends anymore.

for those having bestfriends, be careful and those still wanting to have one, trust me, don't ever think of having one.

cheers

Posted by The Fool at 2:57 AM